The story of a Romni who is now a school teacher. That is really positive. What is less, is that they say that a rich wedding and a future as a housewife awaited her and Ildikó, a Roma a Vlach Romni, defied the rules.

According to the article, men have the decisive say and women’s role is to stay at home and take care of the household. Ildikó Kotlárová also grew up in the Vlach (called Olah in Slovakia) Roma community, refused to accept traditions – she did not want to get married without love in an arranged marriage and she did not want to be a woman whose word would not have weight in society. For not accepting the rules of her community, her life’s dream came true.

Again, the traditions of a very small group of Roma are generalised on all.

• Čakala ju bohatá svadba a budúcnosť ženy v domácnosti. Olašská Rómka Ildikó sa vzoprela pravidlám. In: Dobre Noviny. 02.05.2024. https://www.dobrenoviny.sk/c/216676/cakala-ju-bohata-svadba-a-buducnost-zeny-v-domacnosti-olasska-romka-ildiko-sa-vzoprela-pravidlam